Most husbands probably don’t think about “seducing” their wives – I know mine doesn’t. Men seem to think that once they are married they don’t need to make the effort anymore, and that sex is just a given. But even if sex IS given to you on a regular basis, it is still worth learning how to seduce your wife. Chances are that she will be more enthusiastic and that sex will be more passionate, more intimate, and more exciting if you take the time to seduce her.
In my opinion, the key to seduction if you are already married is not difficult. It really comes down to three things: pay attention to your wife and listen to her; get to know what she likes; do the things she likes as often as you can.
Maybe your wife wants candles and romance? Maybe she wants you to tell her how hot she is and come on strong? You won’t know unless you take the time to get to know what she likes. If you want to know how to get your wife in the mood, ask your wife, and then really listen to what she says.
The Art of Seduction
The art of seduction is to get somebody (in this case your wife) to want to have sex with you by subtly tempting them into it. What will be tempting to one woman might be a turn-off for another.
The key here is communication – what does your wife like? If you don’t know (or don’t care) find out, and then focus on what you know she loves.
Most women can be seduced pretty easily by the man they love, and taking the time to focus on your wife doesn’t mean that your needs won’t be met; chances are that by taking a little bit of time to appreciate her and meet her needs, you will make her feel loved and wanted, and she will repay you with amazing sex
But always remember that seducing her begins by first learning how to love your wife. Because it’s the love and compassion that you show to her on a day to day basis that will make seducing her much, much easier when the times comes.
1. Set the Mood
Make the effort to create a seductive space in your home. Light candles if you have them (and buy some if you don’t). Play music (this can whatever type of music you and your wife like).
Set the atmosphere without your wife’s knowledge, so that when she gets home from work or finishes up with dinner she will see the effort you have made. The very fact that you have made the effort to create a seductive atmosphere will go a long way towards getting your wife in the mood.
2. Keep it Simple
Lots of sex advice books show you how to “have amazing orgasms” and show you hundreds of new positions to try. But if your wife has a hard time getting in the mood this sort of “advice” can be rather daunting.
If your wife often seems uninterested in sex, go back to basics and make it just about enjoying each other’s company, and enjoying the sensations without worrying about anything else.
3. Initiate Foreplay (and lots of it)
If you want to know how to seduce your wife, you really can’t go wrong by taking some extra time to enjoy foreplay. Learn how to turn your woman on mentally, then start slowly and take your time exploring her body.
Kiss her neck, rub her shoulders, and generally let her know that you want to focus on her for a bit. Chances are she’ll be so thrilled by the attention that it won’t be long before she is begging for more.
4. Get to Know Your Wife
Some women are shy about letting their husbands know what they want or like in bed. If you can get your wife to talk about what she likes (not in interview-style but after a couple of glasses of wine, or during a sensual massage) then you will have some guaranteed tricks for how to get your wife in the mood in the future.
Really listen to what she says and then do whatever it is – maybe it’s a slightly different technique, or a softer or harder touch than you have been giving.
5. Shake Things Up
If you are usually the dominant, aggressive type, try seducing your wife by being extra-gentle and focusing on her needs.
If you are usually more reserved, try telling her how hot she looks, grab her ass (in an appropriate situation) and tell her how much you want to be inside her right now – the shock of a different approach is sure to get her hot.
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